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Understanding What Love Really Is. And How Love Works.

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Majority of the people living thinking that love is only a noun which equivalent to love is a feeling. The perception of love as such that a relationship is going to work solely determined by how intense feeling of love is presented in a relationship, has lead us to the illusion of an ideal or sometimes unrealistic romantic relationship. But what if I tell you that love is also a verb. Love is more than just a mere feeling but also it is also an act of service, affection, respect, communication, honesty and anything else that could bring the relationship to another level. Let’s get back to why I have mention that we have created our own illusion of an ideal/unrealistic romantic relationship. You see most people think that they are truly in love when the intensity of the relationship is lighting up bright and when it slowly fade away they thought that the relationship is ending (This kind of situation might happen after 3-5 years or maybe just a few month in). And this i...

How being people smart can help you to leap forward? A lesson from class.

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Today I learned a very important lesson, a lesson that taught me you don’t have to know everything. Instead you need to be people smart, which mean you need to know and understand people. I have witnessed the concept where Jack Ma have applied in building his business with the collaboration of the smart people even though he doesn’t have the same standard of academic intelligence as the others. As we know Jack Ma have once said “You don’t have to know a lot of things, you have to find the people who are smarter than you are.” – World Economic Forum What had happened to me just now in a chemistry class was absolute precious. The lecturer picked up my name and throw me a chemistry question that I don’t know, to make things worst I simply put out some answer and I got pressured by the lecturer as he keep on telling me I am getting the answer wrong but then something really surprising happen. My friends who most of them are academically smart, who are also scholars started to he...